So, I have decided that the NHS really does officially suck.
I have had to phone the fertility doctor and my GP to chase up a referral that Dr M should have made.
Upon speaking with her secretary, we find out that Dr M hasn't even sent the referral across to Dr R.
I'm just wondering at what point do we tell them to try and stop playing God with our lives and our abilities to have children.
Do I really have to do the Dr's jobs for them.
Showing posts with label Male POV. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Male POV. Show all posts
Thursday, 26 March 2009
Tuesday, 6 May 2008
Injustice or blown out of proportion?
So, I was thinking the other day about how our situation could be an injustice.
Let me paint a picture. I have 4 siblings who all have children.
1 had a child out of wedlock, and smoked through pregnancy
1 had a child out of wedlock, smoked through pregnancy and is 17
They say they feel like it is such a burden to have the child. They feel that the child is a nuisance. They say that they wish the child would stop being so troublesome.
I couldn't help but think that this is such a grave injustice and an utter travesty. Here Jamie & I are, doing everything the 'right way', yet we can't have children.
Is this really an injustice or am I just blowing it out of all proportion?
I can't help but feel that it is both.
I know that the Lord has (edit: I put had, I meant has) a plan for Jamie and I and that this is just a trial that we have to go through.
What are your guys' thoughts?
Let me paint a picture. I have 4 siblings who all have children.
1 had a child out of wedlock, and smoked through pregnancy
1 had a child out of wedlock, smoked through pregnancy and is 17
They say they feel like it is such a burden to have the child. They feel that the child is a nuisance. They say that they wish the child would stop being so troublesome.
I couldn't help but think that this is such a grave injustice and an utter travesty. Here Jamie & I are, doing everything the 'right way', yet we can't have children.
Is this really an injustice or am I just blowing it out of all proportion?
I can't help but feel that it is both.
I know that the Lord has (edit: I put had, I meant has) a plan for Jamie and I and that this is just a trial that we have to go through.
What are your guys' thoughts?
Friday, 25 April 2008
The geeza's point of view
Well, I thought that i'd get on here and give my two penneth (cents for our American cousins) worth on the subject.
Let me start by saying that I love kids.
I've always wanted a family. It's always something that I have wanted.
Then to find out that we may never be able to have any. Well, that doesn't sit very well with me.
It is something that I have had to accept. It's not cool, but it's something I will deal with.
I think Jamie thinks that I don't care about the whole situation because I don't show much emotion. That is about a million miles from the truth. I am just trying to be strong for her.
I have a tough time being around my siblings because they all have children. It is really hard to deal with. I love me nieces and nephews, but it doesn't make it any easier.
We just have to wait for May 7th.
Let me start by saying that I love kids.
I've always wanted a family. It's always something that I have wanted.
Then to find out that we may never be able to have any. Well, that doesn't sit very well with me.
It is something that I have had to accept. It's not cool, but it's something I will deal with.
I think Jamie thinks that I don't care about the whole situation because I don't show much emotion. That is about a million miles from the truth. I am just trying to be strong for her.
I have a tough time being around my siblings because they all have children. It is really hard to deal with. I love me nieces and nephews, but it doesn't make it any easier.
We just have to wait for May 7th.
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